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[grogmg]

yeh, wont be getting any certs yet, but it took him months to ask his mam if she knew where he would have to go to get his baptismal cert. As he was born in Sligo we didnt know if he was baptised in the hospital or where, luckily we now know that it was his mam (adopted) that baptised him in the cathedral in Sligo, birth cert is a different story though as dont have birth mothers name.

[Skittles]

The men generally dont do anything. Mine hasnt even got his suit yet argh. Ive done nearly everything myself with the help of my mother.

[Angel_D_08]

I have taken care of almost everything to date, H2B helped with invitations. I've been asking him for wks has he sorted a day to go into town to sort out their suits and still no go on him, told him he's going to be left with big heavy overly hot suits if he leaves it too late, but that's his problem if he won't pull the finger out and do it.

[MaryJ]

My H2B came to look at band (with me), came to cake lady (with me), he is organising the honeymoon. He came to hotel for meetings with the banqueting manager. He is going to sort his own suits. I have my dress and had to tell him to stop askiing for a look at it! (such a nosey parker!!! ) He came to meet the priest and is organising all his documenation for the marriage, (him being German makes things a little more complicated). He is actulaly being a great help. and deserves a clap and a hug!

[cheeky2u]

I am lucky in one way that my h2b is involved in every aspect he can be (expec the dresses of course, lol).
When we got engaged initially, he rang a few bands, we heard about a few wedding fairs and we went to them, everything we have booked or viewed we have gone together and discussed and booked what we both agreed on.
He went to the RDS wedding fair on his own as I wasnt able to go, he got loads of information and ideas, he found us wedding transport with a difference and loads of other stuff and came back to me with the info and what we agreed on we booked.
We have done up our invites, mass booklet etc together and everything is good so far. He has his moments he is cracking me up as he is very much into doing everything together. which would be fine if we lived together but he lives and works in dublin and I live and work in leitrim so we just see each other at weekends and weekends are very short when we are trying to do stuff but we have overcome that now.

[scoots]

to be honest i kinda doing everything myslef but for all tat i done he has had an input all along it is his day too. he did have a groomzilla mooment and well i told him all about it!! Thought i was doing over kill with my theme cuase he didnt listen right. I think he picked the cake, mainly cause he said oh klook isnt tat nice and with that i thought right thats it thats the cake. I aksed him to sort out videographer cause he wanted one i couldnt have been bothered and i pick photographer but ended up doing it myslef i mean he did look and was emailing but i didnt like any of them tat was he main chore. lol. I pick everything and he says if he likes it or not!

[diddles90]

hi, my H2B hasnt been doing much either except fretting over the price of things!! so i busied him with organising DJ and cars! not much i know, but its keeping him occupied whilst i spend a small fortune on dresses! heehee!! oh and hes also good at spending hours on the internet looking at ebay! bless!!

[Cheekymrs10]

my h2b has booked the Dj and did his side of the guestlist ha. He has got into picking music and that for the day. Have to get him settled to write the invites this week...

[Apr2011]

We bought my engagement ring together & looked at venue together - thats it! Everything else is up to me - even picking a suit! Even on a sat when he was doing nothing all day he wouldn't go into town and pick a suit. So I've picked them and he just has to go get measured up closer to the time! but to give him credit he's great at signing me blank cheques and sending me on my way!

[scoots]

i love it!!!! :L

[roma2011]

We went and looked at the venue together and picked the menu together but beyond that he hasn't been that active in planning. It generally works out that I do the research and gather the info and then show the options to him and he picks his favourite or rules out one of them and I go from there. To be honest, he's self employed and has a lot of sporting commitments so he's way too busy to spend the time I spend on researching stuff whereas I work in a normal 9-5 job and only play sport as a hobby so I have a good bit of free time in the evenings.

We don't have his suit yet but he'll be pretty fussy about that when the time comes I'd say. In terms of flowers and colours, he doesn't care and just leaves it up to me. Music on the other hand, he does care about and has been pretty involved and opinionated on that front. Mostly, he doesn't care as long as the price is right. I don't think he realises at all how much shopping around and haggling is involved in getting the prices I track down!

[Happily Married]

We picked the church and the hotel together, picked the wedding rings together, met with the florist together, went to see loads of bands together and h2b ultimately picked one as I didn't mind. We also choose the HM together. Think thats been the extent of h2bs involvement! I was well happy with him though! He's decided to start saying "Whatever you want, sure you know best!" at this stage and if I over spend on something I just say "Sure you told me whatever I want - this is what I want!" No comeback

[mrsmtobe]

my fellas been great hes involved in everything!! at the moment he is doing up the mass booklet and it looks brilliant, he chose the wedding invites too and went with me to see all suppliers and we both made decisions on everything together, hes been great and i was dreading the mass booklet but hes well able to do it ...

[Septemberbride11]

He listening my plans and ideas for hours and trying to look that he's not bored when i trying to explain how many shades of pink there are Oh and when my suggestions and ideas start to be too crazy and too expensive he reminding me about our wedding budget