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[dreamhusband2b]

as some of u missies know i had to plan my own hen its in 10 days time an i feel like jus not goin now im so sick of it!i had a bus organised for everyone and then girls that are in dub sed they jus get the train down which is fine so then there was nly a dew of us on the bus n i thought it was workin out to dear so i was tryin to organise lifts with the girls that are drivin.now they wer all fine with this.then we decided that h2b goin to have his stag in the same place the same nite as us.so sum the girls fellas are cumin aswell.then this mornin i had a msge sayin that they dnt wana drive they wana get a bus so they dnt have to drive the next day.why cudnt they jus tell me that wen i asked them to drive.talkin amoung themselves n planin things is no gud to me.i sware to god planin the hen is harder than planin the weddin.for any newbies that dnt have ur bridal party picked yet think twice bout who u pick make sure there reliable coz there nuthin worse than havin to do it urself

[bingowings]

Sorry you're feeling like that. I think this is one of those moments that you're entitled to be Bridezilla. You should just put the foot down and say this is how it's going to be if you don't like well then organise it yourself. I can't believe you have to organise your own hen. Listen once you get it sorted and get down there you'll have a ball. I went to a hen/stag before and it was brilliant.

Whoever your Chief Bridesmaid is on the day of your wedding work her into the ground, be a Diva, make her do unreasonable things for you. What's she going to do turn around on your wedding day and say no. Have her run little jobs for you. Crack that and make her sorry she didn't organise your hen!!

[MrsMoo]

I know what u mean hun try not to let it get you down. I agree hens are worse to organise I have arranged a few in the past and the amount of people that drop out at last min is ridic and u always have to chase people they are all the same
Try forget about it and have a good time

[Rubies]

Sweetie, I think we're all int he same boat. I ended up organising most of mine, partly cos I'm a bit of a control freak and know what I want so the girls think it's just easier to let me be, then I had disastrous fallin out wit chief bm so the chasing people, n stressing over bloody selfish drop outs who can't even be arsed to tell me directly. Was ready to cancel too but then I realised all my true friends are gonna be there and we're gonna have a brill time no matter who turns up.

[dreamhusband2b]

i have decided fuck them all im goin to enjoy my nite n let them do wat they want they have untill monday and after that im lookin after number 1

[bingowings]

Good for you

to them all!!