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dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:08 pm

hi girls

i had another dress fitting and disaster. the had taken the straps off and now they going back on. i am quite big on top and when they put the dress on me i looked like my two boobs were going to knock me out. defo not the look i was going for

i dont get it - it was not like that last week when had fitting. next fitting is wed before the wedding what will i do if it is not ok.

and like a big fool that i am i have settle the bill - i know worst thing i could have done, my BM say it will be ok and to not worry.

should be enjoying these days leading up to the wedding but i am dreading the thought of the dress not been right and me looking like something out of moulin rouge.

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Re: dress disaster

Postby Soph11 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:19 pm

Try not to stress hun, you will look amazing. Had you asked for the straps to be taken off ? With the straps on it will pull you up in the front (i have a large chest too ;) ) and it will loose the top heavy look, so dont worry at all.
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Re: dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:22 pm

all my BM and shop said i didnt need them - but when they laced the back up the tighter they went the further they come up to my Chin
i didnt know whether to laugh or cry so i just cried like a fool!!

hopefully the straps will make a difference
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Re: dress disaster

Postby Soph11 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:28 pm

Not sad at all to cry, to be honest i was thinking about my dress the other day and i dont think it will fit and i feel like crying everytime i think about it.

The straps should help as they will pull up the front of the dress. Can you ask them for a fitting earlier than the wednesday before your wedding so you can be re asured ?
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Re: dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:30 pm

i work in dublin and they down the country so would not be able to get down to them any day
might try get down the weekend least then they would have time to do something with it if they had to
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Re: dress disaster

Postby Soph11 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:40 pm

exactly, im sure they could arrange for you to come in friday / saturday. If anything just to reasure you that you will look amazing.
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Re: dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:43 pm

thanks so much soph really appreciate that xxx
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Re: dress disaster

Postby MrsMul2B » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:46 pm

You poor thing. Is there any you could, gracefully of course,get them to lace your boobs down a bit. Like a bit tight on top but not so tight that it shoves them up to your chin??? I've been trying that a bit while shopping. It will all be fine. I know it's terrifying and upsetting at the min but they are pro's and won't let you leave unhappy. Have a HUGE glass of wine and relax. It will all come right!
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Re: dress disaster

Postby livingabroad » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:49 pm

R u happy with the underwear u have with it? My chest is large and I hated that my boobs lookedbig so I went on bra expedition and got the wonderbra ultimate, it made a big difference. Also remember when u look down on them they look bigger than for people looking over and up at you so it might not be as bad as you think. With big boobs it's nice to have the security of straps so I hope u feel better when u see it again xx
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Re: dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:50 pm

thanks mrsmul that wine idea sounds good to me!!!

they going to have to do something or the poor priest will end up passing out!
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Re: dress disaster

Postby MrsMul2B » Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:53 pm

Now in fairness where else does he get his thrills but from brides???? Only playing. You will be fine. You will look stunning and not a bit moulin rouge!
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Re: dress disaster

Postby Beanie2010 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 8:20 pm

Hey lady

What about putting the straps in halterneck shape, I find that they can be very flattering for top heavy ladies ;)
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Re: dress disaster

Postby letmeeatcake » Sun Sep 04, 2011 8:32 pm

Try not to panic about it (easier said than done, I know) and it will be alright. The straps will pull the dress front up and your boobs will be nicely supported. The ultimate wonderbra thingy is very good for making your books look smaller (my almost disappear when I have one on!) and it will keep your girls where they need to be! Try to concentrate on the lovely wedding and forget about the dress until the day you go back for the fitting. There is nothing you can do until then, so relax and think of exciting things!
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Re: dress disaster

Postby hugbear » Sun Sep 04, 2011 8:38 pm

Aw dont worry at all.. The shop wont allow you to leave feeling unhappy or having it fitting bad!!! ul be stunning! just be glad you tried it on without the straps and realised you want them back on with plenty of time!
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Re: dress disaster

Postby xxemzxx » Sun Sep 04, 2011 9:05 pm

ah thanks girls
the wonder bra thing does not come in my size!!!
im sure all will be ok - mever thought of the halter neck style
going to try get down this sat and try it again only 12 days away!!!
hopefully all will go ok thanks for all you lovely messages xxx
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