mrs2be.ie

[feb2012]

Hi tandybo. my h2b is the exact same and i was doing everything and i mean everything. so i sat him down one night and asked if this is what he waned and he said thst he did but didnt want to get involed so i showdca list of things that needed to be done and asked him to pick two items . then he will have some feeling of what pressute i was under. now seems to be working but i am still doing alot on my own. it will get easier i promise. just tslk with him

[15wkstoorganiseBigDay]

Because we got engaged and planned the wedding for 3 months later I think my H2B is more involved... He had to be involved cos there was so much to do!

[2excited]

All I keep hearing is no1 has any idea how much preaparation goes into a wedding I have to laugh as all he has done is agree to my suggestions and buy a suit. So chin up it's a bit of a man thing that they dont jump with excitement the way us girlies do. I don't mind too much as I know he is excited just doesnt mind about the small details!!

[tandybo]

YIPPEE I FEEL SO NORMAL NOW
Great to hear such positive feedback that ye have all experienced it at some stage. I was startin to think he was gettin cold feet but guess not.
THATS GOING TO BE ME AND H2B

[grogmg]

My h2b was exactly the same when we first started organising the wedding, it was just too far away for him to thing things needed to be done, we were planing for over 2 years! We are under the year mark now and he is still hard to get a straight answer from. but dont worry it wont be cold feet he's having!