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[MrsEnglish]

lol im the same only a lil worse . . . on the verge of tears half the time and I dont know why!
Everyone is saying the same to me and I am like "ha ha ha I guess I deserve an oscar!"

I was talking with h2b and he is grand with the speech (being a dj is ok-ish with the mic and public speaking) but he is most nervous about first dance, thats all!!

I'm like "here look, can ya even FAKE nerves lol just for a while!" Yea I am in the middle of running frm X to Y all the time.

A tip for h2b lol - write a guide speech and read it a few times . . drink a few drinks and lose the speech and go from the heart! They are far better

[Happily Married]

I must say that to h2b - he has a hard time remembering stuff when he's under pressure! Bless his lil cotton socks Ah he'll manage it, I'm sure

Yeah, I know! Its crazy - feel like I could cry at the drop of a hat and for no apparant reason either. It's a good thing I'm so busy, otherwise I wouldn't know if I'm coming or going!!
Still have a load of RSVPs to chase up which is really bugging me! Not a single person has contacted me from my dad's family I'm giving them until April 20th which is 3 weeks to the big day and after that I'm going to go apeshit on their asses H2b's family isn't much better - h2b's God father lives in the States and he was one of the first we told when we set the date so he could sort time off etc but now his mother has booked last minute flights to go visit him for a month (cause she thought the wedding was the end of May not the start) and she flies out tomorrow for a month - arrives back on the 12th, one lousy day after the wedding! H2b was so disappointed as his godfather had already rsvp-ed until this crap! How much notice do people need - seriously
Anywho....mini rant over! People are just crap in general - I'm sick of chasing people about stuff like do they want rooms at the wedding rate? Can they send back the rsvp either way please? No you can't bring you neighbours friends uncles fathers sisters cat!!! The pure cheek of some people - have you had any of that hun? Guests asking if they can bring X Y and Z? I'm like "Did it say it on the invite...no? Well then, there's you bloody answer!" And I get so angry and I can't moan about it on FB cause they're mostly on FB!
Woah, that was a big rant Totally wrong thread!!!

[MrsEnglish]

Well I have only invites 36 to the meal . . . only 30 are going got final numbers todayI got no-one asking there as I made it clear what the story was . . . the afters we have barely had any RSVPs back (maybe 20%) so we have to chase those up! Gonna put a thing on FB on Wed / thursday FAO EVERYONE not rsvp-ed
Again here we gave everyone 1 plus one only and on the invitation it states NO under 18s I made it very clear to those whom I thought MAY try bring their brats (any yes they are brats . . . they are the main reason for no kids at it) I had them try ask and I told them there is strict ID checking and they will be forced to leave if there are kids
I sounded like a bitch but I had to do it and now they know and are "ok" with it! Tough if not!
I know what you mean though . . . one person actually said she wanted to bring 5 people as she wouldn't know anyone (it would be her, her sis and her friend and then their partners) I told her not a hope, she has ONE plus one! If she knows no-one then either mingle or don't turn up!!
Do say it to h2b reading it a few times he will remember the main people and then he will be more natural if he doesn't have a dialog

Yea a basket case of tears . . . even after "ehem" the other day I balled my brains out and again I have no idea why! H2b was concerned - I told him it was as a result of getting out frustration
But Il tell ya its a great way to relieve some
ESP right now I would not be able to abstain its my stress reliever and a brill one at that
Doing it more frequently these days than have in the last few years

[Happily Married]

Well I have only invites 36 to the meal . . . only 30 are going got final numbers todayI got no-one asking there as I made it clear what the story was . . . the afters we have barely had any RSVPs back (maybe 20%) so we have to chase those up! Gonna put a thing on FB on Wed / thursday FAO EVERYONE not rsvp-ed
Again here we gave everyone 1 plus one only and on the invitation it states NO under 18s I made it very clear to those whom I thought MAY try bring their brats (any yes they are brats . . . they are the main reason for no kids at it) I had them try ask and I told them there is strict ID checking and they will be forced to leave if there are kids
I sounded like a bitch but I had to do it and now they know and are "ok" with it! Tough if not!
I know what you mean though . . . one person actually said she wanted to bring 5 people as she wouldn't know anyone (it would be her, her sis and her friend and then their partners) I told her not a hope, she has ONE plus one! If she knows no-one then either mingle or don't turn up!!
Do say it to h2b reading it a few times he will remember the main people and then he will be more natural if he doesn't have a dialog

Oh God that'd bug the hell outta me!!! I thought I had made it clear too but obviously not! Had my aunt on the phone last night whinging that her son couldn't bring his girlfriend (of a total of 3 months) to the whole thing - I specified she could come to the afters if she wanted. Still not good enough. My aunt was raging cause I'm letting a different cousin bring his girlfriend (of 3 years) instead of his mother coming cause she is separated from his father so it would be awkward, although I still issued her an invite just to be polite but she said if it was ok with me that my cousins OH would go in her place. I said fine, seeing as it was the same number of people from that household and there wouldn't have been an issue only for my aunt sticking her oar in! I was so frustrated this morning, was gonna put up a thread and all but just went for a walk instead and it calmed me down!!

Yea a basket case of tears . . . even after "ehem" the other day I balled my brains out and again I have no idea why! H2b was concerned - I told him it was as a result of getting out frustration
But Il tell ya its a great way to relieve some
ESP right now I would not be able to abstain its my stress reliever and a brill one at that
Doing it more frequently these days than have in the last few years

is regular alright but we're both wrecked so it can be hard (excuse the pun ) to make time! Am looking forward to the HM for all the Will be making up for lost time

[MrsEnglish]

Ahh here go tell her to bugger off and while she is doing that take a long walk off a very short and very high pier!!
Id tell her that 3 months is nothing!! tell her to come back to you if they get to 3 years / 8 years!
Or for a laugh go bridezilla! I have yet to go bridezilla (think I will save it for if my mother starts up again )

As for yea gosh it has to pay a vital role for us as its helping me sleep better so at least 2 times a day lol he is like gimme a break Its gonna fall off . . . lol yea can be hard . . . . . finding time

[MrsEnglish]

lol no prob!!
Yea they really have a nerve!!

I have to say it I should have stayed in bed yday lol!!

[Happily Married]

Just accepted you there on FB soulmate

God I know the nerve of some people - would drive ya mental!! Decided to put it out of my mind, for now anyway I'm feeling much better today Had my sunbed appointment this morning and I left the salon feeling so happy - I could lie on the sunbed all day!! Always gives me a wee high, tis great Sun = happy me You don't want to see me in the winter - I'm like a depressed pudding, or at least thats what h2b calls me

[I do childcare]

god that was hilarios story with the song.... why not allowed show me beeeeeeep... hahahaha
have you added each ohter to fb?
anyone wants to ad me please pm me (future mrs cole)
if you dont, no problem, ill remain out of the loop lol

[MrsEnglish]

god that was hilarios story with the song.... why not allowed show me beeeeeeep... hahahaha
have you added each ohter to fb?
anyone wants to ad me please pm me (future mrs cole)
if you dont, no problem, ill remain out of the loop lol

Lol yea my h2b is a scream!!!
Il PM you me FB name
woohooo

[I do childcare]

woo hoo
have just regsitered our intent with the state.
meeting is 1st july x